Cuffing Season

Here we go again! I can hear the boxing bell ring loud and the announcer yells “Let’s Get Ready to Rumbblleee!” With no beginning date or ending date, the cold weather tells us it’s time. Let’s start with the proper definition of Cuffing Season. Wikipedia (yes, it made it to Wikipedia) says that: Cuffing season […]

Is it Okay to Ghost Someone?

I learned a new word today…Haunting! What is Haunting? Well, it goes with Ghosting. First, you get Ghosted, then you can get Haunted. Ghosting is when you were texting someone and all of a sudden they stop responding to you. Never to text you again, like they have fallen off the face of the earth. […]

Can You Trust Through A Mask?

There are 42 individual muscles in your face, but the 10 we need the most are under the mask. As we go about our day, no one is smiling anymore. Co-workers, cashiers, and even the person holding the door for you. If they did smile, you wouldn’t know it. Did you smile at them through […]

May Day Tradition To Bring Back!

May 1st is May Day! It’s still marked on calendars everywhere in United States but why? I never see anyone actually celebrate it anymore. Do you? May Day originated in Europe and like most celebrations/festivals it has been changed and tweaked. Now unfortunately the festivals to celebrate the change of weather and budding of tulips […]

5 Tips on How to be Happy while Being Single

Last week my older brother put up on the screens at the bowling alley in big print “HAPPY BIRTHDAY RITA!!” I told him it was cute, but now take it down. He didn’t so I had someone else do it. He wasn’t happy with me. The next day I text him saying my birthday is […]

Where Were You?

Everything was fine, everything was good, then out of nowhere, I lost control. Lost control completely! Where were you? Did you know it was going to happen? Did you see it coming? Did you hear me scream your name? As the blood pumps through my veins and my heart beats faster, I start to ask […]

Top 5 Ways To Greet A Possible Soul Mate

“Good Morning,” “Good Afternoon,” and “Good Night” have turned into “Hey,” What’s up,” and a simple “Hi.” What do you send first when you text someone? Do you text why your texting or do you always start with “Hey?” Did you know that “Hello” wasn’t used until the telephone was invented? “Hello” became what we […]

Is Your Music Keeping You Single?

Music has always played a large role in my life. Growing up my Mom listened to John Denver and classical music, while my Dad was all country. I didn’t mind listening to their songs as long as I was able to listen to Madonna on cassette in my room. Yes, I’m that old. After my […]

Do You Believe In Soulmates?

I absolutely, 100%, hands-down, totally believe in soulmates. Meeting your soulmate is like finding a piece of you that you didn’t know was missing. Even before speaking to them you feel this heavy force that fills every crevice between their piece of earth and yours, pulling you towards each other like a magnet. You can’t ignore it. Suddenly, you’re […]

How Many Real Friends Do You Have?


How many friends do you have? I don’t mean Facebook friends, I mean real friends. Someone you can call on at any minute and you know they will be there for you. And no, don’t include a family member just because they are like a friend to you. There is still some bit of obligation […]