Where are all the GOOD single people?

Good single people

They are not paying a monthly fee to an online dating site to be bombarded with a whole bunch of messages just because their filtered, ten year old picture looks good. If you’re looking for a relationship don’t go near POF! There might be a lot of fish in the sea, but that’s never the […]

Stop Being Stuck In The Past

I’m at Home Depot yesterday and I see two guys walking toward me. One has his eyes fixed one me but not in a pleasant way. You could tell they were both working and only there to pick up materials in the middle of the day. He stops me and says “I know who you […]

Did He Just Ask My Age?

did he just ask my age

At what point after meeting someone new is the appropriate time to ask their age? If you are in your twenties, you really don’t care, and you’re happy to tell the world “I’m only 25!” (I secretly envy you for that ? ) If you are in your thirties, you ask with no problems because […]

Joy is not a Response — It’s a Constant Feeling


Seven days ago, my friend celebrated his 40th birthday. As we were are all happy for him, you can see him reflect on his life very much like I did when I hit that age. Actually, every decade does this to us. As I talk to young adults hitting 20 (such as my son in […]

Are You Doing Your Part?

I understand you’re single, but I’m sure you know someone that is too. Everyone has become so busy in their own lives that they sometimes forget about friends that are single. Generations ago single people never had to go to far from their homes. They dated people down the street, someone from school or someone they worked with. Ask anyone […]

8 Dating Tips to make Men go Crazy!

#1. Flip Your Hair – No I don’t mean Aero Smith style with an air guitar. I mean gently using your fingers and flipping a big chunk of hair to one side. Also, just flipping or sweeping your hair off your shoulders. Twirling your hair with your fingers is another hair move – it shows playfulness. #2. Sweat – I know, […]

Don’t Judge Me

We have all heard of the term “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover” but we do judge, assume, figure, or just think we know by looking at someone who they are, what they like. Is this fair? Of course not! Do we do it? Of course we do!  Has it happened to me? Yes! […]

7 Things Men Immediately Notice on a Date

  Smile.  Bright, warm, and a genuine smile on your face when you meet. Always get a good night sleep the night before. We all know that if we are tired it shows on our face. Secondly RELAX! This isn’t a job interview. Pretend you are meeting an old friend you haven’t seen in a […]